Today was my first “real” day of summer with my two kids. For about the last two weeks, I was visiting my brother, sister-in-law, and my nephews and niece in Ohio. That doesn’t count towards summer because I was busy having fun and having my children entertained in the bargain! So, it was back-to-reality today. . . .
I don’t know about you, but I find great comfort in the mundane routine of life. Summer, however, can sort of lull me out of that routine. I find that it’s easy to, you know, stay in my pajamas until noon while eating “Lucky Charms” and watching “Gidget” re-runs on TV . . . can’t really do that with two little kids. Well, I COULD, but, all of a sudden, I’d turn around and it’d be like Lord of the Flies in my living room! So, I pretty much planned out every moment of my kids’ day. Tell me, is it normal to visit the library twice in one day?
In my quest for structure and order, though, I don’t want to miss out on the blessing of simply spending time with my children, especially with my six-year-old daughter Iris who is normally in school. I really love having her around! Iris is a sweet, helpful girl. She actually came to me and asked, “Can I clean something for you?” Ahhh, music to her neurotic mother’s ears! But, I want to make sure that I just relax and enjoy my time with her. I think I’ll have to pencil in a few “pajama days”.
June 23, 2009 at 2:05 am
Sweet thoughts, Em. My girlie likes to “help” her momma clean, too, but it’s not all that effective cleaning quite yet. Got to wait a few years before her cleaning actually amounts to anything truly helpful. Until then, I’ll just enjoy watching her pretend.
ENjoy your kiddos. And, I’m glad to hear I’m not the only one who takes FULL advantage of her local library which ROCKS!
June 23, 2009 at 2:29 am
I love Iris (Asher too!). Anytime she wants to clean something, you send her my way.
And Lucky Charms? Gidget? Should I be concerned yet??
June 23, 2009 at 12:22 pm
Yeah, I have to schedule unstructured moments into my life too, or I just wouldn’t do it!
Ha, what an oxymoron! Seriously though, I’m working on being spontaneous this summer and doing lots of fun things.
June 26, 2009 at 2:18 pm
This summer my kids have to fend for themselves while I nurse my fat little baby